The one question that changed my life!

“Let go of who you think you are and remember who you were before the world changed you”



  • A mum
  • A wife

That was my answer 5 years ago. It’s all I knew how to be. My mentor said to me – No thats what you are not who you are. Who are you without those things?

I went home and cried. I had no idea who I was. I had completely lost myself. My true self. The person I new I was deep inside.

I become a mum at 19 so it’s all I’d ever known. I loved being mum don’t get my wrong. But in looking after my children and focusing on all their needs I didn’t think to focus on my own and look after me.

Now when I ask myself this same question…


  • I am a woman
  • I am strong
  • I am independant (even though I have a loving husband)
  • I am inspiring
  • I am a creator
  • I am a dreamer
  • I am unique
  • I am a writer
  • I am successful
  • I am a mentor
  • I am an entrepreneur
  • I am a coach
  • I am an amazing mother
  • I am a beautiful wife
  • I am loving
  • I am calm
  • I am happy
  • I am free
  • I AM ME

You are more than what you think you are right now.

Ali xx